Last night I sat down with some friends and told them about the Dating Basics series that I have been talking about. Since the last two post have been sort of geared towards the men in a way, it’s time to talk to the ladies. When it comes to dating, women have as much of a part to play as guys do, so if we want it improve our dating lives then we have to lose the attitude.
My male friends are pretty good about reading my blog. Last night they brought to my attention that if a man did the things that I suggested in the first two post then the ball is in the woman’s court and that’s where the problems lie. According to them a man can approach a woman the right way and introduce themselves, but a woman could blow them off with her attitude.
After some thought I realized how true their statements were since I have seen women give attitudes to nice guys. As a woman it’s understandable to wonder what people are up to, but we have to quit the skepticism. Just because someone is being nice doesn’t mean they want something bad. We just have to open up to people and not counteract kindness with an attitude.
For women that are ready to date and looking for someone, there is a part that you carry in making it all work out. The emotions have to be put to the side so that one can be open to new opportunities, otherwise they will be missed. Getting rid of the attitude and skepticism will make you more approachable and available to date.