Many people have a type when they are considering dating a person. The person could be tall and handsome or muscular with a great personality but one way or another dating certain types of people can become redundant. Focusing on our dating lives, are we consistently dating the same person?
Recently my good friend has taken a break from the dating world to get some perspective on the guys that she dates. Her last boyfriend lied and cheated on her, the one before that lied and became mad about getting caught lying, and the guy before that told a lot of lies. Aside from the obvious pattern, all of them have similar attributes and personalities.
If a person finds themselves dating similar people and getting the same results then that means they need to change their preferences. Dating a particular type is alright, but if their lifestyle does not match that person’s then dating someone else that is like them is not going to change things. Sometimes it’s best to just look for someone different compared to continuously dating the same type over and over.
No one deserves to have redundancy in their dating lives due to the types of people that they are seeing. All that happens is that people waste their time and get hurt in the process. It’s better to let go of the type of people one wants then to miss out on the right person.