The best times that I have are when I’m hanging out with my girls. Those times are so fulfilling, but at the same it’s hard to obtain. For some reason it’s hard to find girlfriends that are like-minded to hang out with.
For a long time I’ve had a problem finding women to hang out with that I had some similarities with. Many of the women that I would be around at the time didn’t think or carry themselves like I did, so I ended up being by myself or with my guy friends. Over time I found four main girlfriends that I associate with, but it took a while.
One of the hardest parts is as much as I wanted a friend I knew that associating myself with just anyone won’t benefit me. Finding a solid friend is daunting because people will come and go or others will not work out. However, the right people will show that they are good friends, trustworthy, and dependable.
There is nothing like having people in one’s life that are reliable. I’ve had a lot of friends come and go, but these ladies have been there for through it all. They were hard to find in the beginning, but I’m glad to have them.