Last week was stressful not only because of my move looming over my head, but also the factor of having to depend on other people to get things done. As much as I like to be able to take care of everything on my own I can’t do everything. So how does one let go and let other people help them?
As I wait for my new apartment to get ready I am staying with one of my girlfriends. In the beginning I wasn’t excited about it because I like having my own space and didn’t want to have to depend on my friends. Even though I didn’t have any ideas on another place to stay, I just wanted my own space.
Through the process I’m learning how to accept the help from people and that with staying with my friends is helping them. I have found that with staying with my friends it works out for them too and we both grow. I get to help them with their everyday routine and our relationship also grows.
I found that the easiest way to let people help is just to accept it and move on. I realized that I can’t do everything by myself and as much as I would like to there are some things that I can’t do by myself. To get things done we all need to accept a little help.