People that have been relationships deal with their ex in different ways; some stay in contact with them while others do not. So when there are two people in a relationship is it right for the woman to be concerned about her man being friends with his ex?
From the other person’s stand point there is going to be a concern about how the relationship with the ex will affect the current relationship. Especially if there have been situations in the past that justify the concerns. While there is nothing wrong with people being friends with their ex, there are bound to be concerns.
One of my girlfriends has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for several years. He is friends with his ex girlfriends and talks to them on regular basis. At first she was concerned about it for personal reasons. Now she is fine with it and says as long as there is respect for her relationship with him then she is not worried.
When it comes to being in a relationship that deals with a person and their ex there are going to be concerns. However, as long as there is respect for the relationship then all the other emotions surrounding the ex will go away. Being in a relationship is hard enough, so if there is no need to be cautious then why stress about something that’s not an issue.
Its pretty simple, if the girl think they duke is cheating on here, its probably women’s intiuition. However, she’s gotta know the difference between a mutal friend that’s an ex, or an old flame that he’s tryna smash.
What you said is very true. There is a difference between being friends with an ex and still having feelings for them. The person in the relationship just has to know who they are involved with.
If only more people could read about this..
Thank you, hopefully more people will visit the site and this post will make them think. My goal with all my post is to give people something to think about through the things that are going on in my life and the lives of my friends.