The important thing to remember when dating a member of the opposite sex is that there are going to be frustrations. As much as women would like for men to have emotions like we do, they just don’t. So is there something in a man’s anatomy that involves emotions?
I went home for the weekend to see my family and met my brother’s girlfriend. She is friendly, loves life, and just has a nice spirit, which is the complete opposite of my brother. She is close to my mom, so while we were cleaning the kitchen from eating dinner she mentioned the lack of emotion my brother has in a conversation about a situation they had.
As much as I want to say that it’s just my brother who is not an emotional guy, he is just one of many men. Guys are simply built differently compared to women. Where we are more in tune with out emotions, men handle theirs in another way and don’t express them like we do. They would rather handle a problem or situation instead of talk about it.
I wish I had a solution for getting a man to open up, but that’s something that rarely happens. In a man’s world expressing emotions is not a word that is said often. Plus would we really want to have emotional men? It’s best to let guys be who they are instead of wishing for them to be something different.