Earlier today a group of us were talking to one of my guy friends about relationships and which of the sexes are more complicated. The whole time the girls were talking he was looking at them crazy and shaking his head and then he finally said, “Women are the more complicated of the two. They are always having problems and changing moods all day long.” As surprised as I was by the statement, which we continued to discuss, it made me wonder are women the complicated sex?
I know that there are some women out there that are more difficult to deal with than others, but to bundle all of us up as difficult seems a little harsh. I have girlfriends and dealt with other women, and I know that some of them have more drama and problems then some people do, but we can’t be blamed for everything. When it comes to relationships most women include emotions, and some even include past problems from other relationships when they become involved with a man. Some women play games and try different techniques to get a reaction out of people, however, this doesn’t make up the whole sex.
For every problem that happens between men and woman it would be fair to say that it took both parties to get there. All relationships either romantic or friendships have their problems, and no problem is one-sided because other people have to be involved. Are women the more complicated sex? I personally don’t see it, seems to me like both have there pros and cons. In the end women will always be considered complicated when they mix life and their heart.
Diva: When it comes to the more complicated sex, it’s all relative with respect to each individual situation. At times girls play games, are overly-emotional, or simply just don’t know what they want from a guy. With that being said, guys have complications of their own. They have difficulty expressing themselves and/or commitment issues to name a few. This is an easy one; when opposite sexes interact comes to physically, mentally, and spiritually both sexes have potential to be complicated. However, with open communication these complications can easily be solved. Or not.
-SmFry.
As the old saying goes, it takes two to tango. So it would have to be both parties that make things complicated?
I know someone who has been known as a “complicated” woman. I don’t think that woman are complicated on purpose, but the womans feelings and mood changes are sometimes are a reaction to the a mans actions. Its also because when we want something we have an idea of how it works out, but when it doesn’t work out as we pictured we adjust what we want and how we want it. So this would seem complicated to someone that is not inside our head, but to us it seems ideal.