At dinner the other night I went out with some friends, and as we always do we started talking about guys. One thing that my single girlfriends said they sometimes miss having other person around. As fun as single life is, can it take the place of having a security within a relationship?
As we continued to talk about the subject I learned that as much as they love being single, the cons can sometimes weigh them out. They do love not having focus on a relationship and getting to date different guys. The ladies talked about being lonely some nights, not having someone to talk to, and then how it felt to be alone and not have someone to protect them.
One of my friends recently moved into a new apartment and lives by herself. She says that as much as she loves her new apartment it scares her at night because anything could happen and there is no one there but her. She is constantly worried about her safety.
When it comes to security and a relationship the bases of it all is trust. There has to be trust involved in the relationship for there to be any security. Without it there are just two people together with no sense of security.