I may be alone in this but, I believe that it is possible to find love and someone to spend the rest of your life with. We all desire companionship and to be with someone who understands us. The trouble lies in obtaining the love that many of us are seeking. Should we be actively looking for love?
Speaking from personal experience, the best relationships that I’ve been in are the ones that happened on their own. I’ve had times where I wanted a relationship, but when I’ve went out searching for love it a lot of weird guys would come my way. Over time I stopped focusing on it and took time for myself. Then when I was least expecting to meet someone I met a great guy and love found me.
Going after love, and I mean chasing every guy that looks your way, rarely works to our benefit because we are forcing the situation. We can’t make someone love us and we can’t determine when love will happen for us. Everything in life has a time and place, so when we try to rush the process we end up just hurting ourselves.
The best way to be in the pursuit of love is to be ready mentally and emotionally. Spend your single time pursuing opportunities to know yourself, to recognize what you want, and loving everything about who you are. That way when your pursuit for love pays off you’ll be happy that you found someone to compliment you not complete you.
The person that searches for love may find someone to be with for a moment, but it unlikely that it will last long-term. The right person will cross our path when the time is right for you. Great things happen when we least expect it and when we are in the right mindset. That’s when we will reap the rewards of our pursuit.